Rules for Littles & Middles

So one of the most attractive and fun parts of being little is having rules. Loving CG’s, Daddies and Mommies can set some sensible base rules to help their little manage their day and make their CG happy.

So what sort of limits are frequently set? Most rules fall under one of the following four categories:

Self care
Relationship
Punishment
Reward

Self care

Self care goals are about looking after yourself and take care of your physical and mental well-being. Examples of these sorts of rules are:

Always get at least 8 hours of sleep
No self harm or putting yourself down
Eat breakfast, lunch and dinner (make good choices)
Drink at least a bottle of water a day
Snacks must be approved before you can eat them
Always brush your teeth and hair in the morning and before bed
Bath at least every other day

Relationship

Relationship rules are about setting the tone and expectations for behaviour. Examples of these sorts of goals could be:

Tell your caregiver if another person flirted or hit on you
Don’t deny daddy any affection
Always tell daddy when you’re upset no matter the time
Communicate regularly with daddy. Give a run down of your day each day, and ask about daddy’s day too.
Don’t backtalk daddy
No swearing
Let daddy know when you’re going to bed
Show trust and respect to daddy at all times

If your relationship is sexual you can add some other rules specifically regarding sex. Examples could include:

No cumming without permission
No touching your princess parts daddy’s permission
Tell daddy when you’re feeling horny
Obey all daddy’s commands during sex, unless you use your safe-word.
Always tell your daddy if you’re not in the mood or you feel uncomfortable with any situation (sexual or not)

Punishments

Punishments can be light or heavy but this is entirely at daddy’s discretion. Some examples could include:

Writing lines
Write an apology letter to daddy
Corner time
Time out / grounding
Receiving a lecture
Explaining to daddy why his rules are important and how you will not break the rules again.
Removal of favourite stuffie / toy
Chores
Being ignored by daddy
Loss of furniture privileges
Early bedtime
A delay to a planned activity

If your relationship extends to sex, then sexual punishments could also include:

Orgasm denial
Forced orgasms
loss of underwear privileges
Nipple clamps
Edging without orgasm for a set number of times
Chastity
Kneeling
Spankings (this deserves its own post which I assure you will be coming)
Body writing
Humiliating tasks

Rewards

Rewards are much more personal than most things. Some examples may include:

An outing to a zoo, park or other excursion into the big wide world
Gifts – there are plenty of ideas in our store page
Pampering – a therapy or spa session
free time – colouring, playing board games, or a movie night with daddy
A specific reward you are building to. It could be a new dress, it could be a new experience for you and daddy to share.

Conclusion

There is plenty of opportunity to personalise rules and make them your own. Work together to make the rules work for both of you, and be sure to formalise the agreement. But most importantly be sure to have fun.