So you’re an adorable little with oodles of love to share with a wonderful daddy. So how do you find daddy? Where do you even start? In this article I’m going to try to break down how to begin your search for the perfect daddy.
Identify what you want.
Write down what you’re looking for. – I know writing sucks, but seriously write it down, it becomes real when you do. Lots of studies show… blah, blah blah… *serious face*

So write down everything you’re looking for. What would your perfect daddy look like? What kinds of things would he enjoy?
Types of things to consider include:
- Age – older daddies may be what you’re after, but you may want a daddy around your age.
- Personality – is daddy playful, caring, strict, affectionate, tactile, etc.
- Career – is daddy working class, or a white collar professional? Different jobs mean different amounts of free time to take care of littles. Some jobs include a bunch of travel so daddy may be away often.
- Looks – daddy is always handsome, but does he have a beard? Is he tall? What kind of body does he have?
What sort of things rule a daddy out?
- Is he a smoker?
- Single/taken? (I ain’t judging, but you’re creating your own problems here)
- Too fat/thin?
- Health problems?
- Mental sanity? (We’re all weirdos here – but my god man! Take your meds!)

So you’ve narrowed down what you’re looking for, fantastic! In the next post we’ll look at where to go searching.


I’m looking for a soft dom who is willing to spoil and pamper me. But also be strict when needed. I’m a princess/good girl sun and a bit of a brat.