Finding a DDLG relationship online

So in our last post I covered narrowing down what you are looking for.  Now in this post we’ll be discussing the various types of sites available, and briefly discussing some pros and cons.
There are a variety of different types of sites you could post to and find a little or daddy:

• Vanilla sites – DDLG friendly
• Kink sites – sites related to kink that are more broad than a simple dom/sub relationship.
• Dom/sub sites – these sites are typically more narrow than kink sites.
• Diaper specific sites – if ABDL play is your thing, then check out our listings below.
• Ddlg specific sites – these sites are the sweet spot but can have a bunch of competition and are typically have lower traffic than sites above.

Profiles – the magic of how to attract the right partner

So you’ve picked your site and now you need to write a profile and choose a picture to share. 

How you write your profile will determine what kind of guys you attract.

So write positively, be honest and start with what you have to offer.

It’s essential when you’re writing your profile you paint yourself in a positive light and don’t focus on what you don’t want. We all have something special about us that separates us from everyone else, so find your spark and sell it to the world.

If you like kayaking, and are outdoorsy then list it in your profile. But be specific, as if you say you like hiking and getting outdoors, but fail to mention you’re an environmentalist then you may attract the odd lumberjack which could lead to awkward dinner conversations.

When choosing a profile picture try to choose something unfiltered that still shows you in the best light. Don’t share pictures of you in a group, or cartoon characters, as people looking at your profile want to know about you, not you’re friends or favourite characters. It may be you want to hide your face online and reserve those images for a private gallery, but be sure to make these available to people you are considering meeting. It should go without saying that you should expect to see pictures of any person you are meeting with prior to any meetings, but I will write a separate post about dating safety soon.

DDLG Sites:

Vanilla Sites

These sites are mainstream, but are DDLG friendly – they both have a huge number of users, but only some of them will be looking for a CGL/DDLG relationship.

• http://www.cupid.com/
• http://www.plentyoffish.com/

Kink Sites

These sites are more focused on a broad range of kinks but start to focus more on BDSM

• http://society31.com/
• http://alt.com/

Dom/Sub sites

These sites are looking for master/slave, dom/sub, and more heavy bdsm focused people. That said they do have DDLG/CGL users.

• http://bondagedating.com/
• http://collarspace.com

DDLG/CGL/Daiper sites

These are much more specific sites that include a full range of different DDLG and CGL roles, in addition to satisfying ABDL players.

• https://www.littlespaceonline.com/ – check out their forum section.
• https://www.reddit.com/r/DDLGPersonals/
• https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDLPersonals/
• http://dailydiapers.com/
• http://abdlc.com/
• http://www.datecgl.com/
• https://www.ddlgfriends.com/forum/personals

Other options

There are other options not listed above which include:

• Facebook groups
• Discord groups
• Other social media sites.

Having said that there are a ton of places to seek a partner, but please take care and protect your heart. It is far too easy with today’s technology to be hurt online and I would not want to see any of you suffer due to a single poor choice, or placing your trust in the hands of someone you don’t know online.