DDLG dating safety

So you’ve created a profile, put yourself out there and found a partner that perfectly matches the requirements you’re looking for. So now what?

Well you will want to meet up in real life, but how do you meet a stranger (a potential psychopathic killer) you’ve only chatted to online safely? How do you filter psychopath from love of your life?

When it comes to meeting what was previously a username on the internet its a good idea to clarify some basic safety rules:

Rule 1

Trust your instincts.

Seems straightforward, but in the moment you can be swept away with feelings. Take time to stop and think. Does this feel right?

Rule 2

Keep loved ones in the loop

Tell people you trust where you’re going and who you are meeting with. A loved one, a house mate, or a best friend. Give them sufficient information to be able to follow up on you in a timely manner should something bad happen.

Rule 3

Provide your own transport

Getting to and from your meet up should be in your control. If you use public transport, be sure to have an idea of alternatives if required. If you drive be sure to park close by and in an area with good lighting. You should never invite someone over to your home on a first date.

Rule 4

Meet in a safe environment

Meeting somewhere safe is more than just somewhere public. If you have a regular location where people know you or you can trust the people there that is a huge bonus. It can be helpful to meet near a place where you know people. Consider public places as a starting point and narrow down where you should meet based on access, safety, and suitability.

Rule 5

Don’t leave food or drink unattended

When meeting a person you don’t know, it’s always best to err on the side of caution. The last thing you want is to wake up in someones basement. YES even if you’re into that… you really don’t want that!

Conclusion

There is lots of other good advice, but sticking to these rules will help you stay safe. Consider a video chat or getting a temporary google number and chatting to the person a few times before meeting. This will help you get a feel for them and also. Most of all protect your heart and be sensible. I know that sucks as you kinda have to be Big… but in the end it may save your life.